Psychologist explained whether you should tell a child that Santa Claus doesn't exist

November 18 marks Ded Moroz's (Father Frost's) birthday. It is believed that on this very day in his native Veliky Ustyug, the first real cold weather usually arrives.

As reported by BAKU.WS, psychologist Kira Goldstein in a conversation with "Gazeta.Ru" explained whether children should be told that Ded Moroz doesn't exist.

According to the specialist, most psychologists are convinced: the anticipation of a miracle is not just a game, but an important mechanism that helps children cope with anxieties and feel supported in a world that is still confusing and complex.

"A child can believe in Ded Moroz for as long as they need to. Some stop believing at 6-7 years old, others at 10-11 or even later. This isn't immaturity, but a natural stage of development. Fantasies help overcome difficulties and give a sense that everything will be alright," the expert emphasized.

She added that such a "little lie" causes no harm - on the contrary, it's important for developing imagination and emotional resilience.

"When parents support the idea of Ded Moroz's existence, they invite the child into a space of fantasy where good triumphs and dreams come true. This isn't deception, but shared creativity, a game through which adults help children maintain faith in goodness," Goldstein explained.

Eventually, the child develops doubts, and this is a normal part of growing up. At this moment, it's important not to continue creating an illusion, but to provide a calm and gentle explanation.

"It's important to say: 'Yes, you've grown up and now understand how everything works. But the miracle doesn't disappear - we create it ourselves. Now you too can become Ded Moroz and bring joy to younger ones.' This approach helps make the transition from childhood to a more adult role gentle and pleasant, enhancing feelings of significance and kindness," noted the psychologist.

According to her, kindness and belief in magic don't disappear when a person grows up - they just change form. Previously, the child waited for a gift under the tree, but as an adult, they themselves strive to bring joy to others. Belief in miracles isn't about a beard and staff, but about the ability to notice goodness and hope for the best, concluded the expert.